Irrational Social Norms: The Pressure to Look Perfect and Over-Planning
A social norm that often seems nonsensical when people think about it is the expectation to maintain a certain level of physical appearance, such as always looking presentable or avoiding any comments about someone's appearance that might be considered rude. This norm can be particularly perplexing because it often leads to unnecessary stress and self-consciousness. For instance, the idea that one must always look perfect in public or that making a negative comment about someone's appearance is unacceptable, even when the comment is factual or meant to be constructive, can seem irrational. This norm is deeply ingrained in many cultures, where physical appearance is often overemphasized over more substantive qualities.Another example is the social norm of always planning ahead and organizing one's schedule meticulously. While planning can be beneficial, the expectation to always have a detailed plan for every aspect of life can be overwhelming and impractical. This norm can lead to feelings of inadequacy or failure when spontaneous opportunities arise, and one is not prepared. It also overlooks the value of flexibility and adaptability in navigating life's unpredictable nature.These norms highlight how societal expectations can sometimes be arbitrary and counterproductive, leading individuals to conform to standards that may not align with their personal values or circumstances.